it seems to me that everyone around me is rallying for me. i'm still not doing too great physically and all of my friends and family tell me that they are hoping for the best and to "look at the bright side." but i have to tell you - after a month with a toothache, i feel like i need to get used to this pain as status quo.
maybe that's not the right attitude. i've heard that positive thinking and an optimistic outlook can yield a good outcome. even the other day i tested chakra number three and my rewards came immediately in kind.
on the other hand, i usually prefer to prepare myself for reality. i find that when i get my hopes up - the let down when something doesn't work out just hurts too much.
so what's better? positive thinking to hope for a positive result? or setting yourself up for reality so that you aren't so let down?